26 Nov 2008
stickier than a bond
sticks more than a glue
i am so attached.
Why do ppl get so obsessed at something or someone? Maybe, just maybe, they inspire them? or they look up to them like their role model? But why do some ppl can't get out once they were attached? I've been attached to so many ppl that i almost can't live without them being around. They are one of the reason why i still live in this very confusing and odd world. They make me so happy that when they cry i cry with them. They make my day complete that i can't wait for the another day to come. But how do i get out? Do i ignore them? or act like they doesn't exist? NO. It's not the best thing a person can do. Try not to care for them, i know its hard but its the least thing someone can do. **[And for the record, I AM NOT OBSESSED with a friend of mine. I do care for her but NOT obsessed. This is the only time i am going to say that.] Caring for someone is really sweet, it only means that this person means alot to another person, but caring can be a very bad thing too..it can lead to obsession and you don't even know it. The question now is: How do you get rid of this obsession and get out of this attachment? This worked for me, MOVE ON, LET GO! that's the best cure. You don't have to forget him/her you just have to let go of all the feelings. But never let go of all the memories, that's the only thing that you can always take with you. Move on for the better things to come. I'm sure there's alot of ppl and things that will make you even more happy. Make new friends, talk to someone you trust. Best way to move on. And try to live for yourself not for others but for you and your loved ones. You don't know what you've been missing while you were attached to one person. Have fun. Life is too short to think of only just one person. You're not even sure if he/she even think of you in the first place. Get the inspiration to the person you were attached or obsessed with. Let them be your inspiration. Be your own role model. And last but not the least, LOVE yourself, you can't truely love others if you don't even love yourself. Always take time for youself, to think, to live, to breathe, to appreciate little things. I'm sure if you've done all this then you won't be addicted to anyone. Be your own addiction.
xoxo,
GirLforGotteN
sticks more than a glue
i am so attached.
Why do ppl get so obsessed at something or someone? Maybe, just maybe, they inspire them? or they look up to them like their role model? But why do some ppl can't get out once they were attached? I've been attached to so many ppl that i almost can't live without them being around. They are one of the reason why i still live in this very confusing and odd world. They make me so happy that when they cry i cry with them. They make my day complete that i can't wait for the another day to come. But how do i get out? Do i ignore them? or act like they doesn't exist? NO. It's not the best thing a person can do. Try not to care for them, i know its hard but its the least thing someone can do. **[And for the record, I AM NOT OBSESSED with a friend of mine. I do care for her but NOT obsessed. This is the only time i am going to say that.] Caring for someone is really sweet, it only means that this person means alot to another person, but caring can be a very bad thing too..it can lead to obsession and you don't even know it. The question now is: How do you get rid of this obsession and get out of this attachment? This worked for me, MOVE ON, LET GO! that's the best cure. You don't have to forget him/her you just have to let go of all the feelings. But never let go of all the memories, that's the only thing that you can always take with you. Move on for the better things to come. I'm sure there's alot of ppl and things that will make you even more happy. Make new friends, talk to someone you trust. Best way to move on. And try to live for yourself not for others but for you and your loved ones. You don't know what you've been missing while you were attached to one person. Have fun. Life is too short to think of only just one person. You're not even sure if he/she even think of you in the first place. Get the inspiration to the person you were attached or obsessed with. Let them be your inspiration. Be your own role model. And last but not the least, LOVE yourself, you can't truely love others if you don't even love yourself. Always take time for youself, to think, to live, to breathe, to appreciate little things. I'm sure if you've done all this then you won't be addicted to anyone. Be your own addiction.
xoxo,
GirLforGotteN